What is MyLoveLex?

MyLoveLex is a platform where you can find new people by publishing a list of questions (a LoveLexicon) and getting your answers directly in a private message! No more swiping left or right.

We provide the means to find new people in a different way as we stand behind the motto “Thoughts first, Looks second”!

Our Blog and Forum are the best places for people who want to find their other half by not just swiping to the right, but by putting in the effort to get to know the other side better by asking questions and getting answers before anything else. This way you can establish a strong bond not just physically, but mentally as well!

How it works?

Read our blog and try to re-think the situation that you are in. Try to see things from a different perspective.

Allow yourself to be provoked by a different way of thinking.

Share your thoughts, create or join the discussions in our forum social network. Create profiles, invite friends and message each other,



…Create Your “LOVE LEXICON“…

What IS?

  • Your Love Lexicon is a list of questions that you can publish in the forum. After you publish it, the others will be able to see it, copy the questions and answer them directly in a private message.
  • It’s a place where nobody will swipe you left or right!
  • It’s a place where you get the answers to your questions privately!
  • It’s a given chance for someone to know you based on your way of thinking and the interest you have! “Thoughts first, Looks second”!
  • It’s a place where people don’t filter the others by age, skin, fashion, nationality…

What is NOT?

  • It’s not a place to trash others!
  • It’s not a way to make your private parts public!
  • It’s not a “Best photo session” contest!
  • It’s not a “Pay to Win” game!
  • It’s not a social network group, where the first comment answers with a question, the second comment hates the question, the third comment hates the second and from 100 comments barely 10 makes common sense!
  • It’s not for people who don’t want to pay more than 10 seconds of attention and their thumbs or clicks are on automatic mode!

Latest Blog Posts

NOTE: MyLoveLex blog posts are meant to provide a different point of view of many relationships or self-esteem issues. They are not meant to be considered as absolutely true, nor as advice from a specialist!

  • Discover Your Attachment Style: A Guide to Understanding How You Approach Relationships
    When it comes to how we approach and manage our relationships, attachment types are quite important. Knowing your personal attachment style will help you understand your communication and relationship habits as well as any attachment-related problems you may be having. To find out if you have a secure, anxious, or avoidant attachment style and to learn how it could affect your relationships, take our attachment style test.
  • 10 Self-Assessment Tests for Understanding Yourself and Your Needs in Relationships
    Learn how to better understand yourself and your relationship needs with our list of valuable tests and assessments. From attachment style to communication style, these tests can help you identify compatible partners and set healthy boundaries. Start improving your relationships today!
  • How alive or how dead you are emotionally?
    Numbness is the state of being overwhelmed by too many feelings, not the lack of feelings. If you choose to silence one emotion, you also silence the others. You muffle the pain and the happiness. In this instance, we are living in a state where we are unable to experience the whole range of human emotions.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

  • How to answer an existing LoveLexicon?
    Answering existing love lexicon gives it’s owner a chance to know you better and easily discover common features between you.
  • How to publish your first LoveLexicon?
    Publishing your first Love Lexicon takes you one step closer to your future soul mate. Once it is published the others will see it and answer it.
  • What is a LoveLexicon?
    Your Love Lexicon is a unique set of questions that you want to ask your future soul mate. Find the right one for you based on the answers given!